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People say we should set goals for the stable mind, based on our interest and  our behavior. Honestly goals can destroy too, be it setting a goal that is overly stressful, for a person or family and loved ones,

goal setting might need to add on with consideration and time.

Goals are set for individual satisfaction, idealistic and extremist goals cost more than gain

1) i will be the best blogger or writer in south east Asia or around the globe? or best selling author. ain’t that stressing everything up, or we have decided to throw other elements and our life away …just to focus on a few things in life ? being a writer?

A big percentage of losing the number 1. stage, what about thinking a way that easing, and more achievable  for the adrenalin to be felt as well.

So be it….Perhaps we can set a goal, that is achievable and easing to the mind, balance with  time,



Ever changing landscape, electromagnetic wave,  stars & planet, people, any form of  energy, will keep us unbalance, how could a person be able to restraint, or choose a path between the excitement of the thrilled or the goodness of love and people?

Simple way to say, if we choose someone we love, we have no choice, but to feel insecure, based on the outside influence or ever changing city , people, idea and things, from lust & temptation

In fact, we can’t help if we fall for a raw, younger mind,  which will raise the insecurity level  but when we close our eyes, and count to 10, and find a reason for the trust,

Instead of preaching, being extremely paranoid. installing spyware, or blocking new ideas and discovery

sometimes we have to believe in ourselves and how we can be right.

The only thing to keep us  apart, from insecurity to a stable state of mind,  is to believe the core character of the person, seeing it, felt it, somehow have the faith in it.

Relationship Insights

In every relationship, there is a chance that you will be hurt. If
you run away every time you think you will get hurt, you are
guaranteed a very lonely love-less life.

One of the saddest things is to walk away from a relationship
because it’s hard work or things aren’t necessarily going the way
you expected. This is what many of us do. It is the sad reality of
Hollywood style romance with instructions And with all the advice about “too many fish in
the sea”, walking away when things are hard seems the coolest
thing to do. It shows that you “don’t care” and from where this
kind of advice comes from, that is supposed to be a good thing.
But many years later — just like the people who gave you the
advice — you are still trying to “catch fish” in that sea.
What does it say about you if you can’t catch even one fish in a

sea with plenty of fish?
Relationships need time and work.
Instead of living your life running away from what you don’t
want, try running towards what you want. With some courage,
discipline and the persistence to make this work, anything is